andrea’s sleep problem in brief:
+ 10 years of sleep problems since menopause
+ Interrupted / little sleep most nights, some nights no sleep at all
+ Feeling that turning off the light and putting her head on the pillow seemed to ‘wake up’ her brain, even when she felt exhausted
+ ‘Foggy head’, memory struggles, ‘the colour had drained out of my world’, mind racing
+ No success with sleeping tablets and didn’t want to pursue medications further
+ Also experiencing severe muscle pain
In hER words…
Describe how things were for you just before you found Emma (e.g., how long the problem had been going on for, how much sleep you were getting, how you were feeling).
Before starting, I had been struggling with chronic insomnia for over 10 years. This coincided with two significant events in my life, the onset of an early menopause and a very stressful relationship breakdown within the family over which I had very little control. Over the subsequent years the family situation did ease but my sleep pattern never returned to ‘normal’ and most nights I was having interrupted and little sleep and some nights I would get no sleep at all. I was also experiencing quite severe muscle pain throughout my body. This left me feeling continually under par. I felt as though my head was ‘foggy’ and I couldn’t focus or maintain concentration properly. I felt quite low at times and it felt as though the colour had drained out of my world. I had been to the GP and tried medication but unsuccessfully and really didn’t want to pursue medication as a long term solution. A series of small but significant missed social appointments and failure to remember to do things which I had said I would do led me to look for help from an outside source and in the course of researching therapy, as recommended by a friend, I came across Emma’s website and got in touch before I had time to change my mind!
Describe how things are for you now
I thought I had dealt with a lot of the issues which may have been preventing me from sleeping well but with Emma’s input I was able to see that I had merely buried a lot of the hurt deep down inside and that was manifesting itself through both physical symptoms of pain but also an inability to sleep well. That combined with the menopause had led to a poor sleep pattern which had then become my normal sleep habit. After only two weeks I was already sleeping better and feeling so much ‘lighter’ in my mood. After 5 weeks I am now sleeping more and awake less in the night and I am also falling to sleep much quicker as well.